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You’re My Inspiration

“We inspire those who will then inspire others.”

Molly Wernick, a staff supervisor at Habonim Dror Camp Galil, spoke these words to a room full of Jewish summer camp advocates at FJC’s board reception in Philadelphia, PA on July 12th. She was talking about the theory that guides her supervision: By seeing ourselves as personally responsible for inspiring our campers, they will one day want to be responsible for inspiring others, including perhaps (and hopefully) their own campers. Therein lies a major component of the camp lifecycle that turns campers into counselors, counselors into staff supervisors, and supervisors perhaps to program directors, assistant directors, and beyond.

It comes as no surprise, then, that Molly learned a lot of what’s behind her personal leadership style at camp:

“We have a responsibility to speak to the part of each camper and each staff member that is capable of changing the world. You need to believe that each one of them will do great things. This desire to take responsibility for and believe in people without a doubt comes from my life at Jewish summer camp.”

It starts with shaping young lives at camp–turning campers and counselors alike into leaders–and continues when these young people go out and do nothing short of changing the world.

Enjoy Molly’s speech, and we’d love to hear from you: How has camp has led you to change (even just a little part of) the world? Comment here, on our Facebook Wall, or on twitter using #jewishcamp.

-Joelle Asaro Berman, Communications Manager, Foundation for Jewish Camp

Past, Present, and Future

The following blog post is the second in a series written by Jewish camp professionals, representing an array of camps and movements, expressing their perspectives regarding the past, present, and future of Jewish summer camp.

It’s July 16th and I’m sitting on my fifth flight in six days as I travel across North America visiting the 13 URJ camps I have the privilege to supervise. While having been in the camping/Israel programs “business” for more than 35 years, I remain in awe of my friends and colleagues who willingly take responsibility for other people’s children summer after summer. Anyone who has been connected to Jewish camping knows that the job of camp director has changed radically in the last 10+ years. There is no “break” at the end of the summer, stakeholder needs and expectations continue to rise, directors must possess expertise in everything from septic to stewardship of donors. And then there are the spouses, partners, and kids. Finding balance during the summer…hah! I was recently remarried…yes semi “old” people can find happiness the second time around. Cathy knew what she was getting into but already refers to herself as a “summer widow”. The reward for all this: creating and shaping a vision and monumental satisfaction amid the hassles and endless days and weeks.

This week has been about the past, present, and future. I began last Shabbat in Bruceville-Eddy Texas at the celebration of the 35 anniversary of the founding of the URJ Greene Family Camp.  The celebration acted as an alumni reunion and dedication of a spectacular new sports center. (Full disclosure, the director is my former college roommate, best friend, and Greene director for 33 years). More than 1100 alumni gathered in central Texas to reconnect and revel in the accomplishments of a special place that their parents and grandparents founded to inspire generations to come to take pride in being both Jews and Americans. It has succeeded beyond anyone’s wildest imagination.

Late last night I flew back from Toronto after two days with my deeply committed Camp Board Chair, Raymond Capelouto. After a tire blowout on highway 400 near Barrie, we arrived at URJ Camp George on beautiful Maple Lake. George has a skilled staff, passionate lay leadership, and a stunning site. All that is needed…$6 million to fund phase one of an exciting master plan (third camper village, new dining hall, health center).  George can become a model for Jewish camping in North America. “IM TIRZU…”

I’m about to land in Raleigh on my way to the URJ Six Points Sports Academy on the campus of the American Hebrew Academy in Greensboro, NC. This is the future: highly specialized Jewish camping in rented facilities reaching kids/parents who would probably never have considered Jewish camp. Ninety-five 10-15 year olds are engaged in basketball, tennis, baseball, soccer, and swimming under the tutelage of great coaches. All of this taking place in a warm and welcoming Jewish environment, filled with Jewish values and role models. Very cool. This visionary program was made possible by the Jim Joseph Foundation as part of the Foundation for Jewish Camp’s Specialty Camps Incubator initiative. The North American Jewish community is truly investing in the growth and expansion of Jewish camping.

To all those toiling in the vineyard of building Jewish identity and our future, I wish for you a healthy and safe summer and above all, Shabbat Shalom.

Paul Reichenbach is the Director of Camping and Israel Programs at Union for Reform Judaism

Camp Creates Leaders!

As a teenager, I remember being bombarded with “leadership opportunities.” It seemed that everyone from my English teacher to my basketball coach was pushing me to be a leader.  For me, and for many of my peers, being a leader meant you probably endured countless after-school hours doing thankless work as a club president, sports captain, or student government representative just so you could put it on your college application. Being a leader is ultimately what got us into college.

But for all of our college essays and interviews touting our “leadership experience,” it was clear that none of us really knew what this meant. I soon realized that you don’t learn leadership in a classic classroom setting; you learn it by watching other leaders, and by doing it yourself, figuring it out as you go. For me, “real-world” leadership education happened in the bubble of summer camp.

I was 18, and as a second-year bunk counselor, I was eligible to become a staff general for Maccabiah, our color war. When I was finally picked for this incredible honor, I realized it was up to me and my co-general to direct the activities of over 100 children and young teens for the next three days.

Those three days presented me with more challenges than I had ever encountered–coordinating impossibly tight schedules,  keeping up the spirits of dozens of exhausted campers, and putting out fires among the teen captains. We experienced everything from joyful victories, to behind-the-scenes frustrations, to pleasant surprise when we saw how adept we had become at running the ship.

At the end of those days, I collapsed with the twin conditions of exhaustion and almost-end-of-camp sadness. I had lost my voice, gotten a sinus infection, and noticed gold stains all over my skin from paint that just wouldn’t wash off.

But for the first time in my life, I felt like a true leader–one that led her team not necessarily to victory, but to a greater love for themselves, their camp, and for the sportsmanship, ruach, and awe that color war inspires. I finally knew what leadership looked like and demanded–and more importantly, I realized that those campers saw a leader in me.

This week, we’re talking about the lessons of leadership learned at camp. What did your counselors teach you about being a leader? When did you finally have your “a-ha” leadership moment? Share your stories with us here, on Facebook, and on Twitter by following the conversation on #jewishcamp.

-Joelle Asaro Berman, Communications Manager, Foundation for Jewish Camp

Looking Back

The following blog post is the first in a series written by Jewish camp professionals, representing an array of camps and movements, expressing their perspectives regarding the past, present, and future of Jewish summer camp.

On my first day as a camping professional I drove to the Olney section of North Philadelphia, walked into the entrance and climbed the rickety stairs to the nondescript office on the second floor.  Nobody answered, and after wandering in a confused and anxious state, I sat down at the top of the stairs.  Cells and e-mail had yet to become de rigueur, and I was 15 minutes early.  When the director did arrive 105 minutes later, he was unapologetic and surprised at my being there.  He never told me that we started the day at 9 AM, but I assumed…

He had been a director since 1959, and in truth, his 10:30 AM arrival was a recent change.  For all but the last two years, he would get to the office after 1 PM, sometimes later.  This was understandable, because he was a camp director of another generation; a leader of an agency by night (and summer), and a teacher of high school mathematics by day.  And until my hiring, he was the lone “full-time” professional, with a part-time bookkeeper and a trusted spouse to fill out the team.  There was no computer in the office.  No fax machine.  No web site.  And, in all honestly, few discernible problems.

Families chose the camp for its good reputation, and despite drops in enrollment recently, there was no palpable pressure.  Board members appeared two or three times a year, and when they came, it was more about a meal than anything else.  But despite the lack of technology, the straightforwardness of the director’s approach to the “key things” were working (it was always about being appreciated by ‘the Moms,’ making sure the ‘JCCs don’t forget us in January’ and ‘getting the staff contracts out early’).  Some cabins at camp looked like donated motel bungalows (they were) and the fundraising strategy consisted of contribution cards for memorials, but the camp was mostly fine and the director was a legend.

I took over the camp five years later and changed as much as possible as fast as I could.  My job description, like many of my peers’, became nuanced with “experiential educator,” “Jewish communal leader,” “strategic planner,” fund resource developer,” “marketer,” “social networker,” “staff developer” and more.  We looked like a robust agency, we added dynamic young professionals, we responded to trends, we evolved the program and culture, and we felt really good about how hard we worked year-round, almost bragging about the long hours, the miles and miles of travel for camper and staff recruitment and the complexity of our work.

And in 2010, looking at my former camp (I resigned in 2008) and many more like it being run by similar kinds of amazing people using similar kinds (and ever-growing) sorts of tools and strategies and systems and tactics, sensing the struggle to keep pace in a down economy amidst tremendous competition and negative population trends, I think: did the “old days” actually have it somewhat right?  What would it look like if our directors started to come in a little later, what if they shed some of the demanding responsibilities thrust upon them, what if they turned off the phones, stopped writing and reading the “tweets” and let the summer program flow more slowly?  What if they all moved their offices to Olney (or their own version of it), paid $240/month in rent (maybe that’s not as ridiculous with the markets being so down), required their staff to flex their schedules so they could tip the work/life balance scale in their favor, and shut down the constant “Countdown to Camp” mentality that runs them all ragged for 316 days a year (all for the 49 with the kids)?  What if they don’t carry a BlackBerry or iPhone, and what if they actually buck the trend of Millennials that admit to going to bed with that little thing on their nightstand (more than 80%) and get some sleep?

Just a thought.

Aaron Selkow is Vice President of Program Services and Director of the Merrin Center for Teen Services at JCC Association.  In that position, he uses his skills from a 15-year career as a camping professional each and every day, including in his leadership of JCCA’s Camping Services.  Aaron can be reached at aaron@jcca.org.

Everything I Learned in Life, I Learned at Jewish Summer Camp

Remember that poster with the title, “Everything I learned in life, I learned in Kindergarten”? Well, it got us thinking. It turns out that we could make a simple modification to this statement to reflect the experience of many Jewish campers and camp alumni: Everything I learned in life, I learned at Jewish summer camp.

Jewish summer camp equips us with everything from practical skills—how to sweep a floor, how to stack dirty dishes—to life skills: how to be a friend, and how to contribute to a community. In fact, camp continues to teach us lessons even after we leave, and sometimes we don’t even realize it until we’re well beyond our camp years.

Research shows that 35% of Jewish communal professionals went to Jewish summer camp in their youth. With more and more children and teens attending camp, this percentage is likely to increase noticeably in the next decade. This should come as no surprise, as many camps not only intentionally teach leadership skills, but also give campers and staff unparalleled opportunities to exercise these skills.

Leadership, friendship, swimming, climbing—what did you learn at camp? Share your answers here, and be on the lookout for more messages and updates on our Facebook Wall and Twitter feed!